I know this is wrong and we have both tried to end it several times, but we can't stop. There are just too many disappointments, disadvantages and even dangers that threat women who pursue such a course of action.
a.k.a He'll NEVER stay that into you There are no positive reasons for dating a married man.
Even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas' clothing.
Some emails have come from women who have been “involved” with these men for months, sometimes even years. It doesn’t matter how good the sex he gets from you is either. You see all these words and feelings he describes to you are just as much fantasy to him as they are to you. I’m sorry if that sounds harsh, but someone needs to make you women see what’s really going on in this situation.
He’s lost the romance and spark he had at the beginning of his marriage, and you’re giving it to him. When a man is serious about a woman, he can’t stand being away from her. I feel for you, and I want you to find an amazing man of your own, not for you to take another woman’s, or for a man to treat you like a piece of meat. why would any woman do that to another woman's family - that's just garbage behavior.
Trouble is this amazing new man already has a woman at home. Every couple of days I get an email from another woman telling me they’re dating a married man, or a man who has a long-term girlfriend, but it’s OK because, “He’s going to leave her.” Here is your official David Wygant slap in the face…
The cold hard reality to all this, is this man will NEVER be yours completely.
He has a wife, he has children, and he has commitments.
All that’s happening is he’s not getting what he needs at home, so you’re giving it to him instead. He has the best of both worlds, and he knows full well he’s playing you.
Trust me; the relationship is headed to a place called hell.
In fact, the overwhelming majority of married men never leave their wives.
Vicki, I've been in a relationship with a married man for five years.