And so now 2 months later we are sttill friendd and just a few days ago I saw that he was still replying to those ads and he says he's not gay. There it was, a CL ad correspondence that I barely caught a glimpse of because he clicked out of his email.
@ Jo - I had a very similar situation when I found out my partner of eight years' online extra curricular activities on Craigslist a week after celebrating my birthday last month.
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There are large amounts of gay men who now rely on socializing online, owing to circumstances in their work life or home life.
There used to be a problem of not knowing how or where to meet gay men, when it was a largely underground and hidden population.
Whether you are bisexual or not, the rules for an exclusive relationship is still relevant, it cannot be just anything goes.
I saw 50 or more emails since I moved into his house. As I am bisexual but I was honest with him since day one of our relationship as I had an ex gf. It is time to have that heart to heart, schedule a time for this, do not just bring it up out of the blue, let him prepare himself mentally for this.
I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years due to the shocking evidence of his bisexuality. It all came about when I sent him an email attachement of a picture collage of my surprise birthday dinner.
At first, hid reaction was understanding that I had to leave him now that he was found bi curious but then later explains that it was all an act for you to breakup with him on purpose to be done with me. I came over to him as he was on his computer and BAM!
He swears that he never followed through with any of the ads he responded to for m4m. I do not have to dig up my past for someone to know who I am, so let it go, but the things that affect today, and will affect tomorrow must be spoken about.
And that is where the problem is, the lying, now you do not know if he lied about other things, I think you should confront him and ask him to come clean with you, let him know at this point it will not change anything, but he needs to come clean with you, because if you find things out without him saying it to you, there will be trust issues and you cannot live that way. We did talk and are going to let each other view emails. And the thing is that the email account was an alias. Tracking device and all that is really not the answer, there must be trust, to take that approach will eventually backfire. Let by gones be by gones, but how the relationship progress from here is important.
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ASL: age state location ASL: age sex location B&D, B/D: bondage and discipline BB: barebacking BB: bodybuilder BBC: big black cock, or big black cunt BBW: big beautiful woman BF: boyfriendbf: black female BHM: big handsome man Bi: bisexual Bi F: bisexual female Bi M: bisexual male BMW: big Mexican woman CD: cross-dresser D/D: drug and disease D/s: dominance and submission DDF: drug and disease free DTF: down to fuck DL: down low Dom: male dominant Domme: female dominant DTE: down to earth DWF: divorced white female DWM: divorced white male FTM: female to male (transsexual)FWB: friend with benefits GAM: gay asian man GBM: gay black male GF: gay female GF: girlfriend GG: genetic girl GHM: gay Hispanic male GSOH: good sense of humor GWC: gay white couple GWF: gay white female GWM: gay white male Het: heterosexual HWP: height weight proportional IRL: in real life ISO: in search of LTR: long term relationship M4M: fan for man M4MW: man for man and woman M4T: male for transsexual M4T: male for transvestite M4W: man for woman MBC: married black couple MBi C: married bisexual couple MHC: married Hispanic couple MOTOS: member of the opposite sex MOTSS: member of the same sex MTF: male-to-female (transsexual)MW4M: man and woman for man MW4MW: man and woman for man and woman MW4W: man and woman for woman MWC: married white couple NS: nonsmoking NSA: no strings attached PNP: party and play RTS: real time sex S&M, S/M: sadomasochism SBF: single black female SBi F: single bisexual female SBi M: single bisexual male SBM: single black male STD: sexually transmitted disease STI: sexually transmitted infection.
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