So, for a year it was just us communicating via Skype, texting, and calling each other.‘We became as close as two internet strangers possibly could with each other.
We still kept in contact but we were definitely more distant than we had been before.’‘Being in a long distance relationship has required a lot of time, energy, and money but it’s definitely been worth it so far,’ says Danielle.
‘I feel like in a weird way we’ve been fighting against the odds our entire relationship.
A word of warning: You should always do your homework before confronting your boo with “facts” that you’ve found online.
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“I could have dealt with a gambling addiction or alcoholism – anything but this,” Rachel confirms.
Like most partners, she initially didn’t buy into the concept of sex addiction (“it sounded like a pretty weak excuse for an affair”) and even when she did start to believe that her husband’s behaviour was compulsive, her friends didn’t (“they’d look at me in despair, asking since when had sexual desire became a monster that can’t be controlled”), leaving her feeling isolated.
Checking up on a partner’s activities almost always involves surveillance of some sort, ranging from carefully observing their actions and behaviors to monitoring their activities online.
Your partner may be accessing the internet from a computer, tablet or mobile device, which can make it more difficult for you to monitor what they’re doing.
Because we have helped more women save their marriage than I can count. Your mind will tell you your whole life is threatened. It’s not my job to sugarcoat (I was referred to as the “iron fist” by some clients), so don’t get ahead of me. Here are the possibilities: to do is confront him, and you are probably wondering how.
All minds operate in a certain way because of our instincts. But here is the problem; If you want to keep him you should not confront him.
“So when he sat me down one day to tell me he was a sex addict, I actually laughed – although I soon stopped when he disclosed night upon night of watching pornography for hours on end and numerous short-lived affairs.