Question: Coach, I have been dating a few women at once (playing the field) and it seems that all of a sudden, each one wants a commitment! Answer: I love that you’re doing what makes you happy, getting to know various women… 😉 Sounds like you’re being true to yourself having found wonderful women to get to know.I am assuming it is because Valentine’s Day is next month but I can’t choose. I’m assuming the communication with all of them thus far is that you are in ‘dating mode’ and not interested in an exclusive relationship yet, yes?I invested in several fruitless relationships with men who were avoidant, emotionally unavailable, inconsistent and generally noncommittal.
Thank you for the courage to be honest with them and not lie or lead anyone on. 😉 Yes, perhaps it’s because of Valentine’s Day, perhaps it’s just because you’ve been dating for a while and they choose exclusivity or perhaps it’s because it’s because you’re just so amazing! For example, I”m really enjoying getting to know you. I feel there’s more to explore and discover before that level of commitment.
And now it seems they all desire you all to themselves! Regardless of the reason, I invite you not to go into conclusion that you have to let them all go if you don’t desire exclusivity with one. I understand if that’s what you desire and I honor your choice to stop dating me if you need that right now.
there are always multiple possibilities if you keep asking questions and stay unattached to the results.
I would never want you to be forced into anything then regret it, or have wandering eyes/actions and it all blows up in your face, yes? Enjoy your “Vulnerability is the New Sexy” Complementary Training at
15 16 While providing a sexual outlet, the practice of casual sex often carries negative connotations. The way you write, it seems to mean: "I want more than casual sex.".
Another major concern is that one of the partners will develop romantic feelings for the other. 13 The five main motivators are: Relationship avoidance: legal dating ages in australia Students that liked multiple partners at once and wanted to avoid being tied down to one person.I know this all sounds like justification, but he really has made improvements in the past year.Before me, he was in two longer-term relationships, and he said that he’s never had what we have now, that he’s never even considered marriage and kids with anyone else before and that I’m not just his girlfriend, I’m his best friend.Take this piece of casual dating advice and (repeat after me) get out of the house.Rack Up the Digits, when you strike up a conversation with an attractive, interesting guy in a club, an elevator or even a supermarket aisle, go ahead and ask for his phone number.People who have commitment issues generally have a serious problem in staying in a relationship for the long-term.