She can feel comfortable in setting the rules and doesn't need to feel like she is not in control of the situation. If commitment is something you may be looking for, you might want to opt for an older man. Communication is still not at its optimum peak in a younger man.Either they aren't yet comfortable with it or they haven't been able to tap into their resources yet.
I mean, there's so much to learn from the other person, in terms of outlook, perspective and lifestyle. And if there's one relationship that sort of nails this phenomenon, it's the younger guys with the older girls. Younger guys are cuter, more hyper and full of surprises, and that can only make a relationship more exciting.
Read on as we bring you 11 reasons that will definitely convince you.
Which is a great thing, because it takes away from the pressure of a situation and you can focus better. And he also relies on your advice, frequently seeking it before getting a haircut done or when he needs to have an awkward conversation with someone.
There are times you are scolding him, but then he says something stupid and you end up laughing.
They still have a thirst for life that hasn't been jaded yet. These men are not afraid to tap into their feminine side when it comes to grooming.
Their style is set by what is seen in the media and they are much more fashion savvy. Many younger men seem to be enraptured by older women. And rather than this being intimidating, it turns him on. With a younger dude, there is less of a chance of getting damaged goods — a guy fresh off a broken-off engagement, for instance, or finding an old live-in ex-girlfriend's body wash (Cookie dough? You'll spend all your time at your place because his is either gross or his parents' house. You'll basically never have to do a Walk of Shame in your entire relationship. The occasional late night, unexpectedly fun house party, and kinda decent obscure band whose album he burned for you? The ambivalent dudes, shitty apartments, and entry-level bullshit job? While someone a little older might worry that you're veering off the path you should stay on, a young guy will encourage you to keep ~*~*~f OLLo Wi Ng y Ou R d Re Am~*~* to become a hand model or a papier-mâché artist or whatever. Whatever tips you suggest to him will be imprinted on his unformed brain and carried over to With great power comes great responsibility, bra. Or having you sing "The Bear Came Over the Mountain" while putting things in his butt. Being the older woman means, among other things, that you are independent, smart, and have your shit together. For instance: During sex, Nick Cannon and Mariah Carey listen to ... Because you're the grown-up, and grown-ups know better. For instance, he knows you are more familiar than he is with the job search, so he listens when you suggest that, I dunno, maybe he use Comic Sans for his resume font. He's got less romantic history for you to deal with. You can relive the most fun parts of your younger years without suffering through the worst parts. He won't judge you for quitting a job you hate, traveling around Europe, or making some other random quarter-life detour.Dating someone younger—whether you’re two or three years his senior or are talking cougar territory—certainly can work (look at Eva Longoria and her 4-years younger beau), but being an “older woman” in a relationship does tend to come with certain perks and downfalls.If you want to make things work, be sure you can handle the following. Men reach their sexual prime in their twenties due to a spike in testosterone, while women typically reach theirs in their 30s and 40s.So whether you're dating someone younger than you or unfairly judging someone for doing so, here are some assumptions you might want to check at the door.