Men - you think you know them and are reading the signals correctly when suddenly, out of the blue, you realise that, who you thought you were dating, was a pure figment of your imagination - and that, actually, you know as much about men as you did when you were fourteen and fancied the boy who worked in the chippie on the corner.
Sadly, unlike fourteen-year-olds, when it comes to dating, time is slightly more of the essence the older one gets, and unless you're looking to spend two years of your life on a guy who's idea of commitment is adding you as a Facebook friend, sometimes it is useful to sift the chaff from the grain - or the players from the keepers, before your collecting your free bus pass.
Dating player relationship
As much attention as men get for the games many play we forget something that’s very true.
Many women are the masters of the “game” and have been running circles around men since the beginning of time.
Players know what they want and know how to get it. It's not all bad news though, players are typically fantastic fun, awesome in the sack and will know how to show you a great time ...
Every online dating site will have it’s share of players and if you want to find a genuine relationship then learn to spot the players on the dating sites you join.
Let’s start with the basics, what is a player and how does joining online dating sites suit their purpose?
I would like to thank Simon for the inspiration to write this post and I dedicate it to you, you are truly a player at heart.The ability to stroke a man’s ego can be an art for some women and they enjoy using this powerful tool.Yesterday, I blogged about the advice my male friends have for interpreting a guy's mixed signals. Now, I think it's obvious when someone texts you at midnight, asking what you're up to, that he's just looking for sex.Today, as a follow-up, I want to talk today about another writer-lady's very smart advice on how to determine whether or not a guy is a player. But players will also send more innocent-seeming texts, saying stuff like, "Hey — spontaneous invite — wanna grab dinner tonight? I'm free tonight but will probably have to work late through the weekend. " While this kind of informality might come off as charming or enthusiastic, I think you should never agree to a last-minute plan unless you've already been on multiple dates with a guy — or unless you feel confident that he is pretty into you. It will make you uncomfortable or it will seem like a deviation from his typical behavior or both.Susan Walsh writes the blog Hooking Up Smart, which I came across when she mentioned one of my columns in a post of hers. As Susan points out, players will often send a lot of basically meaningless "sweet" texts, along the lines of, "How was your day? Whatever you do, if you agree to a last-minute plan, also agree to go home with him! While we're on the topic of cellular communication, I will add: 3. It's different from the feeling of excitement and enthusiasm two people will feel when there's mutual attraction mutual respect. Players will not respond well if you voice hesitations about having sex.Do not confuse a player with people who simply enjoy casual sex, players are called players for a reason, it’s all a game to them.