I've had men read my stuff and ask me when I was going to write something for them.
Many of these guys either hold the above listed grudges against Asian American women in general, or they have their own specific reasons for being angry at Asian American women.
They have each, in their minds, made a correlation between the interracial dating disparity, and the other well accepted societal stereotypes of Asian American men (mostly produced by western movies and media).
Of the few men left over who stuck around after she started fuming, most of THOSE men tend to become offended and get angry in return, leading to arguments, shouting, and in some sad circumstances, slapping and hitting and violence.
Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.
All of our "feelings" and what men unfairly call our "crazy" usually stem from just two things -- we want to feel safe (like we can trust you) and we want to feel special.
And as complicated as we seem, it is very easy for us to feel this way.Not only does this let her know your maturity level, it also speaks volumes about your ability to have a daughter, raise a son, or be someone she respects. Keep her from being fumbled to the opposing team... You have those nice big man arms and your body has a decent amount of hair. But messaging her constantly, and aggressively is annoying and, frankly, a bit clingy. Just like in a real life conversation-- one person shouldn't always be doing all the talking. This goes for when you're hanging out with any human being. It should be punishable with a fine or community service hours. Talking about how hot another girl is, or anything sexual about her body parts, should be reserved for the deep, dark depths of your brain that never see the light of day.When she loses respect for you, there is no turning back. You can follow that Paleo, Crossfit, Caveman diet, without actually being a caveman. When you pressure a girl it feels more like something they are being forced to do, as opposed to actually enjoying. Uploading and tagging her in said photo is definitely worth jail time, though. Those thoughts are left in an invisible box of words where you keep the other words you should never utter in a relationship.Whether this mathematical imbalance is REAL (i.e., based on actual U. Census data) or PERCEIVED (i.e., based on anecdotal evidence of what some guy “sees on the street,”) I don’t know, and more importantly, I don’t care.There is, however, something that is very real: “Asian American women are sell outs! I can’t believe that Asian American woman is with that white guy. ”“Asian American women have bought-in to mainstream media stereotypes of Asian American men! They need to see the error of their ways and start dating Asian American guys!So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.