Note: Those who identify as "Transgender [Ft M]" or "Transgender [Mt F]" will be listed as "Boy [Ft M]" or "Girl [Mt F]" on their profiles.We chose to do this so that those individuals can feel more like their true selves on the site while allowing others viewing their site to know they're trans*.
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When I had identify has a lesbian, a very butch one but a lesbian, I would use a male name and pronouns and made it a point to pass has a male but at that time I did not know what transgender was so that's why I say I've been full time longer then I have been out.
I am very mature for my age and I think that as to do a lot with how I was raised and the things that have happened in my life.
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While he has dated some people through the site—it’s where he met the woman he’s seeing—he is frustrated with the limited ways transgender people are able to identify on the site, “because you don’t fit into these little boxes, or the people you’re interested in don’t fit in neat little boxes.” La Mon wasn't alone in his discontent.
Last year, Yeni Sleidi met a software developer named Asher Snyder who was fed up with what he calls the “Tinderification” of online dating.
He dates men and women, both transgender and cisgender (a term for people who aren't trans).
After La Mon transitioned from female to male, he didn’t change his gender to “male” on his OKCupid profile; instead, he started a second profile where he identified as “male.” He kept the female profile active because he thinks that some women who typically date other women might also be interested in dating transgender men.
In both profiles he makes it clear that he is “a trans guy” and that people should “only message me if you’re cool with that.” Part of the need for this complicated negotiation is that OKCupid doesn’t allow users to identify as “transgender”—just “male” or “female.” The site has been in the news this week after cofounder Christian Rudder announced that developers secretly changed some people's compatibility ratings and removed profile photos to learn more about behavior on the site.