The topic of mixed signals is commonly brought up in discussions about dating.A mix of stop signs, green lights and hot and cold behavior from a woman you are pursuing tends to stir up confusion and questions.Then the next year, I kept catching her glancing at me.
(But it is hard to get into more complex discussions about stuff because she is kind of a Luddite when it comes to email and IM.) The second year we were reunited, we spent about an hour cuddling with each other.
Not just arms around each other's shoulders, but more like a full body embrace.
[Read: How to text flirt with a friend] What are mixed signals?
For the uninitiated, have you ever felt like someone likes you, but then you’re confused again?
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