So, if you're looking for a woman who can definitely contribute to the household, she'd be it. Since the 1880s involved a very strict courtship rule set, one single dick pic would be enough to make her run for the hills, grab her father, and have her father shoot you.
This has raised an eyebrow or two because, as I now understand, when some people hear old-fashioned, they think outdated—or worse.
reader offered what seemed to be some kindly advice for finding what I am looking for.
Sure, it might be uncommon nowadays, but is it for a man to look at dating through a more traditional lens?
This comment seemed to imply that going “back in time” is a bad thing, presumably because our culture has made many gains in terms of gender equality.
Please send me one with no tatts or piercings ( ears okay ), that doesnt drink like a alcoholic doesnt get into drugs and knows how to look and act efeminate rather then the new age ones trying as hard as possible to be men one that knows a relationship is not 50/50 but 100/100 one that prefers me to her friends/co-workers and has a mind of her own and doesnt ask or listen to her friends/co-workers advice Here's a small lesson. I have to say, there are a lot of "nice girls" that have a tattoo, or maybe even a few. Sort of old fashioned but then I can't say that I am completely old fashioned because I am on here, right?
It means She doesnt talk like the local ho on the corner or dress like them, she doesnt talk her sex life with every one,she knows a man real well before she jumps in bed with him (maybe even waits for marriage) and if she does nobody but him and her are going to know (unless he is a piece s#it)You'll never know how she is in the bedroom till you earn that right and for most males out there you will never know. And I found that it was very hard to find a guy who would respect you fully without him trying to see if you're really that way or a "hoe in disguse"..that would straight out laugh at your values or way of thinking.... Independence, creativity, passion and deep emotional grounding. This day and age a tattoo has nothing to do with the morals one might have.
It was much more romantic to gently hold each other and sway to the music together. Enjoying the simple pleasures It would be boring if we didn’t have all the fantastic and exciting entertainment options that we have now, but there was something really romantic about simplicity of date destinations of the past, like going for a walk, roller-skating or a catching drive-in-movie. Anything more than a cheek kiss wasn’t even expected Back then, anything more than a cheek kiss wasn’t even on the agenda or, at least, they didn’t admit it was.
People had time to know each other better and connect on multiple levels; this made the relationship much more pure and beautiful, and the foundation and friendship in the relationship were a lot stronger than physical. Making it clear when you are going steady Instead of awkward, beating around the bush conversations about where the relationship is going, old fashioned dating had its definite stages and boundaries.
Over the years, dating has become somehow a colder affair, than it used to be.