What kept me together emotionally was knowing she was waiting in the wings. I would wait until her son finished school if that was what she wanted.
I would give up on having children of my own if it meant being with her.
If you’re one of the many guys out there that wants to know how to date a married woman, then you likely know that you’re not in it for a long term commitment.
You probably also know that it can be hard to actually meet a married woman to date.
I’ve met many charming men who have been very nice to me.
I had a relationship with one of them for over a year.
Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days.
As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.
And, unlike the 23-year-old who gets tanked and throws shade at your ex, she’s got class. I once went out with a young man from Queens who only dated older women because younger ladies, he found, couldn’t do a thing without checking in with 15 of their friends.
In fact, your ex will likely friend her on FB (like my old bf’s ex-wife did). When you date a younger woman, he said, you also date all her friends, and it’s “a pain in the fucking ass.” You can’t just go out and do your own thing because she must receive approval from a larger governing body.
I was surprised but thrilled when I saw her name flash onto my screen. By the third time we met, however, I simply found her too alluring to resist. What I found irresistible was the way she came across as prim and proper, but also delightfully naughty at the same time.