This is where all the erasure and biphobia comes into play and where it gets fucked up, violent, silencing and oppressive.
His partner C was monogamous and only tentatively open to casual sex with others outside their relationship.
And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email?
It’s important to remember that on tumblr, this debate is more like an ongoing flame war, so I’m responding based on a lot of prior discussion and knowledge.
A lot of people on tumblr found this helpful, so I thought I might put this here as well.
I finally felt as though I had a word for how I felt.
As years passed, my knowledge expanded, and I discovered the many different gender identities on the spectrum.You should be 18 or plus to use our dating service.We do not provide dating consultancy but we make best effort to help you start dating.Concurrently, I would also advise people to stop defining other people’s identities for them: they can do it perfectly well themselves.Since the pansexual side of the debate is usually the one doing these things, I urge pansexual people to consider the power relations here (obviously working against bisexuals), to take responsibility for themselves on the personal level, and to call each other out and encourage accountability on the community level. try not to assume that all pansexuals are necessarily biphobic or against us.Pansexuality soon entered my vocabulary, and it has stayed with me ever since.