Source: Gossip On This I am a firm believer in that saying by Maya Angelou that says “When people show you who they are believe them the first time.” This philosophy should be applied to all aspects of life; however, this should be a golden rule for women who are in the dating game.
Over and over we hear women drone ” He wasn’t always like this,” or “He just changed on me one day out of nowhere.” No, boo, he didn’t change.
This is important in determining whether or not you’re willing to go through with the relationship.
He was always this way, he’s just finally showing you who he really is.
As women when we first meet a man, out of eagerness, naivete and sometimes low-key desperation, we overlook major flaws and red flags just for the sake of being coupled up.
You’ll definitely need to accept this man’s ex-wife, but that’s as much as you need to do.
There’s no point in digging up dirt about her or stalking her on Facebook.
For example, “I bought this convection oven six months ago and it’s already broken with no warranty!
” What if previous suitors on dating sites could leave reviews like, “This contestant looks like her profile picture! ” It would be good to get a heads-up of this nature when looking for your next potential mate.Lots of good, decent and people are looking for love on the Internet. Social networking is quicker and easier than in-person networking.You don’t even need to leave your chair (or your car, if you have the right App).What’s not normal is getting into physical altercations as a result of road rage or getting into all out screaming matches with strangers.If you’re noticing that this new guy has the ability to go from 0 – 10 in a matter of seconds or frequently releases his frustration by punching something or cursing out anybody that gets in his way, you may want to consider getting out of the way, because he could very well take that He cheated with or left his ex for you Girl, if he had a woman when you emerged on the scene and he left ‘ol girl for you, chances are your relationship with this dude is as good as doomed. Peep game, if he’ll cheat with you, he’ll cheat on you and if he left her for you, he’ll be leaving you for someone else.As a matter of fact, that’s usually the joker who can’t rub two nickels together.