Yes, focusing on what's inside is more important — but that's easier said than done.It's hard to ignore something as obvious as height, especially if it makes a person stand out.
She is one of my clients who has never dated a short man, and she has no intention to ever date one.
She insists, “I’m just not attracted to them.” Alexis is a smart woman, and she is also a nice person, even though her attitudes about short men are actually pretty patronizing and dismissive.
While some people find that their height doesn't impact dating at all, others may feel that it allows for judgment, fetishization, and stereotyping.
In a society where there are ideals of femininity and masculinity, it can be difficult for individuals who don't fit neatly into those boxes.
According to Alan Au, client relations manager at the clothing boutique “Jimmy Au’s For Men 5’8″ and Under” in Beverly Hills, the “mate retention behaviors” of short men are precisely why you should date them.
As part of a case for dating short guys, he says, “Considering lifelong companionship, shorter guys may be the better choice.
So next time you meet a beautiful women who just happens to be taller than you, just follow these 3 simple steps for success: everyone is gawking at it… And the only way they would notice is if you mention it. It sounds obvious, but it really works…because at the end of the day, that’s what she is: A woman.
So if you don’t mention your height difference…chances are she won’t mention it either. Taller women are uncomfortable (even if you’re really into her).
says, “Male height is associated with high mate value.